Apply the dial delay the same way at boot and after a disconnect, tell socket create and setblocking failures apart, and cap the delay so the wait always elapses

tests/component_tests/api/test_outgoing_connection.py

@@ -66,7 +66,7 @@ def test_outgoing_connection_bare_block(
 def test_outgoing_connection_delay_bounded(
     set_core_config: SetCoreConfigCallable,
 ) -> None:
-    """A delay past the device's uint32 milliseconds is rejected, not wrapped."""
+    """A delay past half the uint32 millisecond range is rejected, not wrapped."""
     set_core_config(PlatformFramework.ESP32_IDF, platform_data=ESP32_PLATFORM_DATA)
     with pytest.raises(cv.Invalid, match="value must be at most"):
         CONFIG_SCHEMA(_api_config({"delay": "60d"}))